Remember the old saying, "laugh with you. " So relax, lighten up; do not get things out of proportion.
记住这句话吧，“笑对世界，世界便会同你一起欢笑。”所以，放松自己，轻松面对；不要小题大做，自寻烦恼。Resisting change or trying to control the change out of life is self-defeating.
无论是抗拒变化还是试图控制我们无能为力的东西都是自寻烦恼。So, instead of being hard on myself I decided to read what other writers had to say as well as learn some writing technique in the process.
所以，与其自寻烦恼，我决定去读一读其他作家所说的，顺便在阅读的过程中学习一些写作的技巧。Dont bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself. William Faulkner.
威廉姆斯福克纳美国作家：别自寻烦恼的只想比你同时代的人或是先辈们出色，试着比你自己更出色吧。"It's not something that I actively worry about, " he said. "I'm fully aware that every career is fleeting in some respects. "
他说：“这不是我该自寻烦恼的，因为我完全明白在某些方面而言任何一项事业都是转瞬即逝的。”You see, life can be simple and easy! Why do we always make ourself to be tired with the stress? !
你看，生活不是可以既简单又轻松吗？我们干嘛老是自寻烦恼呢？You will hear people say, "Nine out of every 10 businesses fail, so why bother? "
你会听到人们说，“十次创业有九次会失败，为什么去自寻烦恼呢？”It was not in her nature, however, to increase her vexations by dwelling on them.
以她那样性格的人，也不会尽想着这些事自寻烦恼。It's human nature to worry, but try not to be a slave to worrywart-ism (a serious challenge for me! ).
担忧是人类的本性，但是尽量不要让自己被自寻烦恼所奴役（对我而言那是一个严重的挑战！）