And if it doesn't work out, you can arrange to see friends at the weekend and not dwell on your disaster.
如果不顺利的话，你还可以安排周末去见见朋友，而不用一个人顾影自怜。This just confirms my point: true enrich not to fill the hour, on the contrary, you have to leave some time for yourself.
这刚好印证了我的一个观点：真正的充实不是把时间填满，恰恰相反，你必须留些时间给自己顾影自怜。The common herd is an old Narcissus who adores himself, and who applauds the vulgar herd.
世间俗物，就象那顾影自怜的老水仙一样，很能赞赏俗物。"I can sit around here and moan about my troubles, or I can do something to modify my life, " he said out loud to himself.
“我可以在这里顾影自怜，或者我可以做些事情改变我的生活，”他对自己大声地说。She was interested in her charms.
她已经懂得顾影自怜。There would be no level of public adoration he could achieve that would reach the level he felt for himself.
公众对他的仰慕远没有达到他顾影自怜的程度。"Reflections (Care Enough)" was released as the album's fourth single in late 2001, but wasn't promoted in the United States.
2001年末，《顾影自怜》作为专辑的第四张单曲发行，但并未在美国预售。During the day, I proudly striding along, the high-spirited; night, I Guyingzilian, cold winter lights linked.
白天，我昂首阔步，意气风发；深夜，我顾影自怜，寒灯冷挂。You can be empathetic and compassionate with yourself without wallowing in self-pity.
你要了解自己的感受，并且同情自己，而不要顾影自怜。